Copyright © 2006 Mary Foley
About a year or so ago the national news told us that scientists in Europe cloned a sheep. As a watched the story I fantasized about cloning myself.
One Mary would take care of all the logistics to run my business like e-mails, phone calls, sending out packages, filing, bills, etc. Another Mary would dedicate all of her time to networking, marketing, and following-up on sales calls. When the story was over I was snapped back into reality. The two additional Marys vanished and I was left with just myself to do it all. And I was exhausted.
If you’re like me, one of the reasons you went into business for yourself was to feel more satisfied and fulfilled. The constant feeling of never getting enough done or not having enough clients for cash flow doesn’t quite meet the satisfaction criteria.
Striving to be bodacious, I mustered the courage to be in charge of my life by trying to solve this problem. Here are two important things I’ve come to realize:
1. The feeling that you need more time AND more clients NEVER goes away in business.
It’s part of the package. Or, better yet, part of the adventure.
In fact, these same feelings exist in the big companies of Corporate America. They are always anxious about their sales revenues and always pushing the clock to get out the next product version or new model.
So, I’ve come to accept this tension as normal, and I’ve come to accept that it actually serves a purpose of pushing me to work smarter. That’s where the adventure part comes in, which leads me to my second realization.
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